On Friday, 5th December 2025, both the married and singles gathered at the Navigators House in Dzorwulu for the Singles & Couples Retreat organized by the Family Life & Relationship Ministry. The retreat began with a timely and thought-provoking teaching by Rev. JFK Mensah on the theme “Marriage, Divorce & Remarriage.”
In his message, Rev. JFK spoke about God’s original design for marriage, the brokenness that often leads to divorce, and the need for wisdom, grace, and biblical understanding when it comes to remarriage. His teaching reminded participants that marriage is a covenant before God, not a social contract, and that obedience to God must guide decisions in relationships. His teaching set a great foundation for the rest of the program, calling everyone to examine their hearts and align their relationships with God’s Word.
Following the teaching was a panel discussion with long-married Christian couples, and it felt like a continuation of the same message. The couples spoke openly, without pretence, about their journeys. When asked what first attracted them to their spouses, many spoke about character, such as kindness, gratitude, respect, and a genuine love for God. Some shared stories of delayed marriages due to parental opposition and long waiting periods, but they testified that patience and trust in God were worth it in the end.
As the conversation moved to the early years of marriage, one thing became clear: adjustment never really ends. One husband described how his quick, spontaneous decision-making often clashed with his wife’s careful and methodical nature. Marriage requires humility and continuous learning. Again, forgiveness came up repeatedly. One panelist shared that after many years of marriage, he chose to forgive freely without keeping records of wrongs, explaining that forgiveness flows from understanding how much God has forgiven us.
The couples also spoke about communication and intimacy, noting that both evolve and must be worked on intentionally. They encouraged openness, honest conversations, and spending time together, reminding participants that intimacy is sustained by everyday choices. On the issue of headship, the men emphasized that leadership in marriage is not about control but partnership. They spoke about consulting their wives, valuing their insight, and leading with humility.
Additionally, when finances were discussed, different approaches were shared, but unity, transparency, and prudent living were common threads. One couple shared how choosing to live modestly helped them remain generous and united. By the end of the session, one message stood out clearly: marriage is not about finding a perfect person. It is about commitment, choosing daily to love, forgive, and grow together, with God at the center.
The retreat left both singles and couples encouraged, challenged, and reminded that strong marriages are built over time through faith, patience, and obedience to God.
